If you are a hopeless romantic like me,you are most likely thinking, out there is a woman who will accept you for who you are and that the two of you will live happily after...
Well, there probably is such a woman. The trouble is unless she sees the best side of you first, she will never be yours.
Let me put this way,imagine you are a woman. Like all women, most likely you will have this list of what your ideal soulmate's qualities should be like.
Average-in-everything-guy is most definitely not gonna be on that list...
Now you are most likely thinking, hold up a sec Ash, are you trying to tell me, I should put up a false front to attract women?
Why can't I just be myself ?!!
If you remember this from the previous post :
" That in no way means trying to emulate someone else to look better/cooler. Just be yourself, while at the same time trying to do it. "
So what the hell are you trying to say Ash?
I am saying unless you improve yourself for yourself,you will never find your soulmate.
Why?
Because a man who does not love himself enough to improve himself,how can he be trusted to love his soulmate the way she needs it?
Because if you choose to have qualities which are not ideal,seriously you are expecting to attract a woman ?? -_-
The problem with average guys is that they think having a girlfriend will complete their lives.
Then they start to treat the women they like, extra special,as if she is the centre of the entire universe.They waste their money and time,thinking these two things are substitutes for having a good life to share.By the way, this kind of behaviour is a turn off for most women in the long run.
Get this straight,having a girlfriend or soulmate should not complete your life ! She should complement your life.
She will be an important part of your life but she cannot be your entire life.
Once you understand this,you will understand, yes you can be yourself but you have to strive to become the best of yourself.
When you get your shit together,the women will come and when your soulmate sees you,you'll be ready to make her an important part of your life.
So go and...
GET A LIFE :)
4 comments:
im a chick and i love your blog. id love to meet you :) i actually think women love boyfriends spending money on them, they just get spoilt after a while and become bitches. so guys, i would say do spoil your girl once in a while. its hot and romantic.
Awww,thanks for the love :) I agree guys should spoil their girls once in a while,with the key phrase being "once in a while" and preferably when she's not expecting it.
Getting props for pieces written 2 years ago?
Now I think we're on to something.
Bro, spirit fingers!!!! haha.
Yeah time sure takes its time.Spirit fingers!
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