Have you ever been in a situation where,you and a bud like the same girl and one day,he confesses he's got 'feelings' for her?
Or have you put a bro in that situation?
In the animal kingdom,in these kind of situations,it's very simple.
Fight for your bitch!
Unfortunately among humans,it's not always that simple.
There are things like social norms for one.And laws and shit like that.
Also sometimes,it might be a friend you've known for a decade or a couple.
So, do you just stop pursuing this girl and let your friend have her?
Hell no!
Not without a fight at least.
Try to remember this tit bit.
Women don't choose who they are attracted to.
Why is this important to know?
Because it means if she's not attracted to your friend,then your gesture of letting him, have her has become totally pointless.In fact now some other asshole is gonna reap the fruits of your 'kind/friendly' act.
So you get out there and keep flirting with her,fuck bros before hoes.
She'll choose the better man or in this case, the one she's more attracted to.
And while women don't choose who they are attracted to,you can improve your attractiveness.Thus loading the dice.
Read these 2 posts :
1. Girls,girls,girls...
2. Get A Life
If your friend wins in the game of seduction,feel happy for him as hard as it may be to do.Learn what he did right or wrong.And while you may have to tone down your flirting a couple of notches,keep flirting.Practice is always good.
Finally, never become a girlfriend/wife stealer.Bros before hoes!
Some would argue,what's wrong with that?
Didn't you say she's gonna choose the better man?
Isn't it his fault, for not having a stronger attraction than me?
Yes,I did.
But think about this for a while.
If you do succeed in stealing a girlfriend/wife,what kind of of girl do you think she is?
6 comments:
Dude, I am certainly not gonna agree with you on this.
I've got into a situation like this before, and I've got to say that either one giving way to another would just cause even more problems for the friendship between you and your friend in the long run, whether you want to admit it or not.
It's best if both of you decide to come to an agreement that neither one of you would want to risk your friendship for a girl. And I dare say; Bros before Hoes my friend.
Oh and about your kind/friendly act. Dude, it takes a real man to give in esp when he's really into the girl. That is the sort of guy, who knows that there are most definitely a truck load of girls out there waiting to get preyed on.
Unless of course, you think the girl is worth fighting for, esp someone who has just entered your lives for short time. Take it from me, no girl is ever worth the cost of a friendship/brotherhood with a bro.
"no girl is ever worth the cost of a friendship/brotherhood with a bro."
This is true.
And I'm not encouraging anyone to lose a solid broship over a girl.
But there will always be high chance that some of the girls you like,will also be the ones that your bros like.Birds of a feather,flock together.
I'm just saying keep flirting,let nature take its course and decide the victor then deal with the situation after accordingly.
True bros will accept whatever outcome.
"True bros will accept whatever outcome."
It's easier said then done my friend. Bro's wouldn't even bother trying to put their dicks in the same hole.
I'm guessing to each his own man.
Yes,I guess for this one we'll have to agree to disagree.
no girl/guy is worth losing a friend over unless it's...love...dare i say it. But even then is it? Live and learn?
I have been in this position...except on the other end. Someone was pursuing me but I wasn't interested in him--his friend--Nothing happened out of respect of the guy who was into me...but if something did, who knows?!
Like a movie I saw...if someone doesn't like you, someone else will.
So life goes on. And if no one likes you, then I guess you got work to do.
Well, I guess it all boils down to us and what we want out of that particular situation.
I don't think there's a person whom no one likes at all. Even the wierd ass freaks have got admirers of their own lurking in the woods. haha.
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